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Dr Love, Yulisa Ahmadu: Girls, don’t ask/beg on your FIRST DATE!
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Dr Love, Yulisa Ahmadu: Girls, don’t ask/beg on your FIRST DATE!

In a new relationship, particularly on a first date; it’s not good to ask or beg for money from your man. Besides that, there are also other things you should never do on your first date with your man. So many things can go wrong from the first day and so many things can go right as well, it just depends on how she reacts to the situation.

 

WHEN HE INVITES YOU OUT, DON’T TAKE YOUR FRIENDS ALONG!

Some ladies are in the habit of taking their friends along when a guy asks them out. On a first date, it is usually not alright to do such.  He wants to have enough time with you, so give him the attention and privacy. Just the two of you!

DON’T WEAR HIGH HEELS IF YOUR CANT FEEL COMFORTABLE ON IT!

Ladies wear high heels in bid to impress their partner on a date. Some ladies are not used to wearing high heels. But because they want to appear like other girls, or to impress their partner, they will wear the heels and eventually embarrass themselves in the way they walk or stumble and fall.  In going out on a first date, always wear what you feel comfortable in. in short, if you are not used to high heels, go low!

DON’T ORDER A TYPE OF FOOD YOU ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH!

You don’t have to impress anyone. Be yourself on your first date. Don’t order a certain food you have no idea of, or probably have never ever seen or tried. You might just embarrass yourself. Suppose the food is something you are allergic to? Don’t order because the name of the food on the menu sounds great, you will be shocked when the food arrives.

DON’T GO TO HIS HOUSE UNINVITED/UNANNOUNCED

Another thing a man hates the most is for you to show up at his house unannounced or invited especially when he just met you.

DON’T BE TOO QUICK TO UPLOAD HIS PICTURES ON INSTAGRAM, FACEBOOK, TWITTER OR YOUR WHATSAPP PROFILE (SOCIAL MEDIA)

Come on,  you just met this guy, a new flame, the relationship is at its early stages, there’s still so much you don’t know about him why upload his pictures for the world to see? The relationship may not even be defined yet. By doing this, you’re giving people room to influence and alter your infant relationship. Also you don’t want to be like those people who have to cleanse their Instagram and Facebook pages of a guy’s picture every 6 months because of a breakup.

DON’T WEAR SEE THROUGH OR EXPOSING OUTFITS ON YOUR FIRST DATE

Guys are very Impulsive and instinctive by nature, by wearing a dress or gown that’s says “SEX” that’s all that will be on his mind and nothing else. He won’t want to hear anything about you anymore; your personality, your job, your family etc.  All he’ll be thinking about is how he’ll take you to his house or hotel room because you’ve sent him a signal saying you want sex.

DON’T ASK SILLY QUESTIONS LIKE HOW MUCH HE EARNS? OR WHAT TYPE OF CAR HE DRIVES? WHAT BRAND OF PHONE HE IS USING? ETC

What car do you drive? That is the first question some girls will ask. And interestingly most guys would be offended by this and even have a negative impression about you immediately, because a guy would wonder do u like me or my car?

DON’T GET DRUNK ON YOUR FIRST OUTING WITH HIM

Firstly Ladies, this is for your own safety; a lot of ladies have been taken advantage of because they were intoxicated. You also don’t want to embarrass yourself and say or do things that you can’t defend or verify.

DON’T BE TOO ENGAGED WITH YOUR PHONE (WHATSAPP/FACEBOOK)

It’s very un healthy to  go out with someone and at the same time be so focused on your cell phone chatting on whatsapp or facebook. He needs your attention and time it’s a date, so concentrate and spare him this moment. Enjoy your date.

Girls, see how you can work on this tips and I wish you a happy New relationship.

Yulisa Ahmadu (Dr. Love)

 

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